So, i chose a family member that i was always close with growing up, as my matron of honor. I was maid of honor in her wedding a year or so ago. Unfortunately, when it came time to chose my wedding party, i was torn between her and my best friend since pre-school. I chose my family member for the main reason that i was her maid of honor and i was afraid of what my family would think. Now we hardly ever talk, she never makes the first effort to talk to me or anything, and basically is so wrapped up in herself that i'm afraid my special time won't be about me like it should be. My best friend cares so much more about me and would be a great maid of honor. i'm wondering if it is wrong to politely as my cousin if she would just be a bridesmaid and let me friend be MOH. or if there was some way i could have two MOHs (like can you have co-MOHs in a wedding? or is this unheard of?). any advice would be great!