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Sister drama

He Knotties I just wanted to wish everyone well before I post. So I am having a bad situation right now. My sister, who I love dearly, is constantly treating me like a child and disrespecting her immediate family. She is suppose to be my maid-of -honor, but now I'm not so sure. A couple of weeks ago we got into and arguement over some comments made about our mother. She has since passed over the issue. Acting as if it never happenned. I was ready and willing to be mature and work this out. She has said to me there is nothing to talk about and because I didn't apologize, she is still upset. I asked her could we talk about this so it will be done and over with and she tells me that she doesn't wan to talk about it. I amd 24 going on 25 and she is 31. Is there anything else I can attempt? Like I said in the being I love her dearly, but I just don't know if I want this tension looming between us. I am getting married in two months. Please Help!!

Re: Sister drama

  • I recommend you let it go as your sister suggests.  What more do you hope to get out of this by rehashing an argument?  She's frankly coming across as the mature one here.  

    My sister was my MOH and did everything she could to try to ruin it.  Spoiled surprises, threw tantrums before the shower and at the rehearsal, insulted me in my dress, insulted the officiant...I can go on but I don't feel like retyping it out.  I definitely felt tempted to boot her a few times but I didn't and I'm VERY GLAD I didn't.  

    Focus on the big picture here: You are marrying your FI.  Your sister will be the sister for the rest of your life.  Booting her from the WP is a bridezilla move.  Do you really want to open that can of worms over one fight?  One fight?
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  • Ditto to what Brooke says.  Just try to let it go.  If she holds a grudge, that's her problem.  Don't let the negativity get to you.
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  • Ditto Brooke.  It's the nature of sisterhood that you're going to butt heads sometimes, but do you really need to rehash this argument?  I think you need to let it go.  And really, I don't see how this has anything to do with her being MOH in your wedding.  Are you really still going to be angry about this fight in 2 months?
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