Adding a Bridesmaid 2 1/2 months before wedding

doglover2014

Hi everyone,

So my wedding is June 30th - I thought it would be a nice gesture to ask my fiance's 3 sisters to be bridesmaids (my sister is my MOH). I figured that way I would eliminate any friend drama (eg. friends feeling hurt that I didn't pick them). My best friend of 10 years wasn't offended at all that I picked his sisters. I only really know the ONE sister kind of well, the other 2 not so much, but they've been relatively helpful and nice to me. One of the sisters has not, however. And I'm not one to really have regrets, but honestly, I am REALLY REALLY regretting not asking my best friend to be a bridesmaid. The girls already have their dresses though, and it IS 2 and a half months before....help.

SCogs18

If she isn't offended by being a "last minute bridesmaid" and has time to get a dress, I don't see anything wrong with adding her.

marybroooke

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_adding-a-bridesmaid-2-12-months-before-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:79f936f9-91c4-4f59-85d8-a80e9bbf6c84Post:f3584801-c23e-4b63-81c6-e84881348b53">Re: Adding a Bridesmaid 2 1/2 months before wedding</a>:
[QUOTE] I don't get why this matters in the decision.
Posted by mbcdefg[/QUOTE]

<div>I love when people take the time to add their valuable input such as this.  </div><div>
</div><div>Anyways, that's kind of pushing it time-wise... I know where I got my dress, bridesmaid dresses take 2months to come in.  If that's not an issue, and you really want to ask her, then go for it - it's your wedding.  I understand that you probably feel weird having one of his sisters that you don't even have much of a relationship with in your wedding party and not your best friend. However, you knew that before, and it sounds like you are just second-guessing your decision, which is totally normal. </div><div>
</div><div>Just remember that there's no wrong answer here. Your friend is going to be there for you on your wedding day whether she's a part of your wedding party or not. </div>