I have been looking at bridesmaid dresses for months! I found a bridesmaid dress a couple months ago that several of the girls tried on and LOVED. It's exactly what I'm looking for (sweetheart, strapless, shirred bodice with a natural waist so it's very flattering and it's lux chiffon) but when we looked at the price tag it said $180! I think that's too much to ask of them, but the girls that were there acted like it was ok. However, I really feel like they're just being nice. They keep telling me it's my day and they'll do whatever I want but I've never paid that much for a BM dress so I feel bad asking them to. So basically since that day I've been trying to find a similar one for cheaper and it doesn't exist (at least not in my color-mermaid). I recently found one that's sweetheart and strapless but it's cotton sateen (which looks so different than my vision of chiffon) and it's only $100. Which should I have them get?