It seems like some of us seem to have that one or 2 bridesmaid that doesn't order her dress until the last min. Well my dresses take 4-5 monthes to come in. My one bridesmaid is going through a divorce and I understand it's hard for her right now. (Even though she claims she has never been happier) but hasn't ordered her or her daughter( my flower girl's) dress yet. We still have time but she hasn't answered me the past few weeks when I ask her to come to the bridal store with me or if I could mail her the contrract.. What should I do to go about this in a nice way??