Hello everyone. Any advice would be greatly appriciated. I have a friend who since about the week I became engaged has asked who my MOH would be. I don't feel like a friend would ask this, and that it is the brides decision to pick who she wants. I recently asked her to be a bridesmaid, and while she said she was "honored" she forgot to mention that she has a wedding to do the day before mine. My problem is this: I am from Colorado, and the wedding is in Montana. She was planning on doing this first wedding then driving to Montana the same day, showing up around midnight - 1am the night before my wedding. She also keeps asking who my MOH is. It seems like she will all of a sudden be free and will do everything with mine if I make her my MOH. Now my wedding is over 2 1/2 months away and now I only have my other 2 instead of 3 that I planned. I don't know how to go about handling this situation. My fiancee's cousin's wife has been mentioned and apparently she would be happy to do it, but I don't want her to feel like she is only filling in....I guess having a lop sided bridal party would be as bad right?