I had to use the term "momzilla" for the first time. Please tell me other people's moms are this way. My mom is angry I chose a specific friend as a bridesmaid. I even let her pick my maid of honor!! Her problem is this friend talks "preppy" and she doesn't want it to influence how I talk on my wedding day. I decided to put my foot down. We originally wanted to elope and my family wanted a wedding. We have compromised a lot. I explained that my friend has been a good friend and it does not matter what anyone else wants. This day is not about my friend and I. The only people who matter are my fiance and I. My mom interjected "and me!" I also wanted to take my FMIL dress shopping with me in addition to my mother and bridesmaidsl. My mom said that day is her day and insisted she not be there. Am I crazy for wanting to call the whole thing off and just go to the local court house on our own? We have eight months left till the wedding...I don't know if I can make it. Am I wrong for not thinking of this as her day?? Did I miss something...I really feel clueless with all this wedding planning...Maybe I don't understand...Maybe it is my mom's day??