Need help translating brides intent

SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:d3abf713-5695-45f6-ab71-7f0598697b5e">Re:Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Well I feel sorry for the parents who have kids in your class. I also feel sorry for any children you have.</strong> kettle pot! Grow up. All of this is a mute point you are all rude attacking disrepectful human beings who never left high school. She made her choice, I made the mistake of ever condidering her my friend. I'm completely fine with her removing herself from my life and wedding. I'm only sorry it didn't happen sooner.
Posted by mpierce27[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>This is a personal attack. You don't know me so don't judge me.</div><div>
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</span></div><div><span style="font-size:11px;line-height:14px;">See what I just did there?</span></div>

Knottie_22381998

This post has one of the highest amounts of comments, having read them, they seem really catty, these also some serious chuncks missing unless most of you have lost your minds and have random posted things... I don't really understand what this was all about, from what I gathered so far is a BM stepped down, Bride made some responses to what was posted, and now it's this huge thing. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but you do realize this whole thing is about someone's wedding, I don't know about you but I would be horribly upset if one of my friends came on here when she should have talked to me... then everyone attacks her? I mean I'm not saying she innocent of even a victim really, but all of you kinda jumped on the ban wagon. I would be devastated if people treated me this way about my wedding. We all wait and dream about this whole experience. You honestly have no idea how someone takes something, I would never want to be responsible for hurting someones dream. What if she's took all of this the wrong way, I had a friend who tried to committe sucide because 1 co worker didn't like her, I couldn't even imagine how she could take several attacks. Please look before you jump. I know I'll probably be bashed for posting this, but I hope she has someone to talk to. There's nothing worst than feeling all alone when you down in the dumps. Hopefully this thread stops, there no need to continue, as it looks like the Bride has deleted her account and the OP has asked us to stop.

Peledreamsofrain

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:d5dd0854-27ce-4c5f-a3ac-74476bfb80ef">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]This post has one of the highest amounts of comments, having read them, they seem really catty, these also some serious chuncks missing unless most of you have lost your minds and have random posted things... I don't really understand what this was all about, from what I gathered so far is a BM stepped down, Bride made some responses to what was posted, and now it's this huge thing. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but you do realize this whole thing is about someone's wedding, I don't know about you but I would be horribly upset if one of my friends came on here when she should have talked to me... then everyone attacks her? I mean I'm not saying she innocent of even a victim really, but all of you kinda jumped on the ban wagon. I would be devastated if people treated me this way about my wedding. We all wait and dream about this whole experience. You honestly have no idea how someone takes something, I would never want to be responsible for hurting someones dream. What if she's took all of this the wrong way, I had a friend who tried to committe sucide because 1 co worker didn't like her, I couldn't even imagine how she could take several attacks. Please look before you jump. I know I'll probably be bashed for posting this, but I hope she has someone to talk to. There's nothing worst than feeling all alone when you down in the dumps. Hopefully this thread stops, there no need to continue, as it looks like the Bride has deleted her account and the OP has asked us to stop.
Posted by theternimator[/QUOTE]

<div>I have no idea why you think you can judge the situation when you are missing 70% of the information.  I find your post to be extremely catty and judgemental, so there's that.</div><div>
</div><div>For your information, the bride was so nasty and abusive that she got herself banned from the entire forum.  That takes a LOT of nasty.  So, thanks for the high horse comments.  You're so high up there that you can't even see what happened.</div>

Knottie_22381998

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:8229d39c-5d91-4f70-b1b7-3b211f6dbb27">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Need help translating brides intent : I have no idea why you think you can judge the situation when you are missing 70% of the information.  I find your post to be extremely catty and judgemental, so there's that. For your information, the bride was so nasty and abusive that she got herself banned from the entire forum.  That takes a LOT of nasty.  So, thanks for the high horse comments.  You're so high up there that you can't even see what happened.
Posted by Peledreamsofrain[/QUOTE]

I didn't mean to offend you or anyone. I just felt like everyone lost percpetive on it. How do you know she got kicked off and didn't delete her account? I was just suggesting that everyone take a step back and take a moment to breathe. How would you feel if she harmed herself in someone because you were relentless? How do you know you actions don't have consequences? I might be over sensitve as I perviously mentioned I have a friend who takes rejection horribly but honestly it seemed really harsh. Unless her pyshically harmed her BM, I don't think anyone needs to be treated that way. That also goes for the Bride. I stated she wasn't innocent or even a victim. Plus we don't know the whole story, there is obviously more to it then was mentioned. The MOH also commented on the post and no acknowldeged her post. I truly didn't mean to offend.

Knottie_22381998

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:3cdbfca2-ab1c-41d3-98fb-61d644b23842">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Need help translating brides intent : I'm 99.9999% sure she is the bride trying to defend herself. You can tell by her other posts.
Posted by missax[/QUOTE]

I literally just created my account I haven't had time to set up my account. I just posted about a problem I have with my WP. I'm was looking for advice on how to handle it. I took notice because of the high amount of comments. I truly didn't mean to offend anyone! I apologize. Maybe this site isn't for me. I don't like putting people down thats all.

SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:3e665000-4af6-485a-bb23-ef73233e2f57">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Need help translating brides intent : I didn't mean to offend you or anyone. I just felt like everyone lost percpetive on it. How do you know she got kicked off and didn't delete her account? I was just suggesting that everyone take a step back and take a moment to breathe. How would you feel if she harmed herself in someone because you were relentless? How do you know you actions don't have consequences? I might be over sensitve as I perviously mentioned I have a friend who takes rejection horribly but honestly it seemed really harsh. Unless her pyshically harmed her BM, I don't think anyone needs to be treated that way. That also goes for the Bride. I stated she was innocent or even a victim. Plus we don't know the whole story, there is obviously more to it then was mentioned. The MOH also commented on the post and no acknowldeged her post. I truly didn't mean to offend.
Posted by theternimator[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>We know she got banned because all of her posts disappeared; people reported her to the mod of this board. You can't delete your account unless you contact the IT department, and even then I'm not sure if it's possible.</div><div>
</div><div>Your post count tells me that you might not know how things work on TK forums. Stick around and get a feel for the boards, and you'll see that we're not all bad.</div><div>
</div><div>For the record the bride was way out of line when she tried to dictate the hair colour of her BMs. That's just ridiculousl; she was in bridezilla territory for sure. Also, since she continued to return and argue with us it's pretty fair to think that she's not as sensitive as you might think she is.

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Knottie_22382452

Wow just wow.

Knottie_22381998

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:d06245ce-7944-41e5-834b-02d3c051df91">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Need help translating brides intent : If you really think that what people said on here was relentless then you are going to have a really hard time out in the real world. Good luck with all of that.
Posted by missax[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry, I have always chosen to be a friend first, it has served me well over the years. I'm 44 years old. I have waited a long time for my happy ending, I might be over romantic but I hate that someone or someones did it to hers, thats all. Again I apologize that you felt I overstepped. That was not my intention.

Peledreamsofrain

Nice puppet account.  It totes makes you look less crazy.  TOTES.

heatherk2489

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_need-help-translating-brides-intent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:9066d211-1d5d-48f0-9ef1-352a138b194ePost:d5dd0854-27ce-4c5f-a3ac-74476bfb80ef">Re: Need help translating brides intent</a>:
[QUOTE]This post has one of the highest amounts of comments, having read them, they seem really catty, these also some serious chuncks missing unless most of you have lost your minds and have random posted things... I don't really understand what this was all about, from what I gathered so far is a BM stepped down, Bride made some responses to what was posted, and now it's this huge thing. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but you do realize this whole thing is about someone's wedding, I don't know about you but I would be horribly upset if one of my friends came on here when she should have talked to me... then everyone attacks her? I mean I'm not saying she innocent of even a victim really, but all of you kinda jumped on the ban wagon. I would be devastated if people treated me this way about my wedding. We all wait and dream about this whole experience. You honestly have no idea how someone takes something, I would never want to be responsible for hurting someones dream. What if she's took all of this the wrong way, I had a friend who tried to committe sucide because 1 co worker didn't like her, I couldn't even imagine how she could take several attacks. Please look before you jump. I know I'll probably be bashed for posting this, but I hope she has someone to talk to. There's nothing worst than feeling all alone when you down in the dumps. Hopefully this thread stops, there no need to continue, as it looks like the Bride has deleted her account and the OP has asked us to stop.
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Jessa617

 

This is all I can say about this.

Knottie_22382452

I have my suspicion of who ternimator really is. This is sad. Very sad. I'm sorry that you ladies ended up having to endure all of that. Wasn't my intent for it to fly off but at the same time, After everything was said and done, I thought showing her what her actions actually meant would open her mind. I was wrong to even think it would after seeing the ridiculousness of everything. It blows my mind really. Thank you for standing up for a complete stranger on the whole issue as well as the advice that I asked and that you took the time to help me.

lacelover

So on a boring weekend, I decided to read back thru the archieves and ran across these posts several months ago. Now again on a slow and boring weekend, I read through the past posts and realized most of the posts are from the same person, Knottie. I don't know how I missed this the first time. LOL, she is arguing with her self, and no one caught it! Soooo fricking funny, I pulled out my ice cream and reread from the begining. On hell of a boring weekend just turned into one of the best!

 

Come on Knottie! Keep me entertained!

Dreamergirl8812

Lobster1987 said:

I think "Knottie" is what they give someone now for an account that has been deactivated....It's the only thing that makes sense to me.

Yeah it took me a bit to get that. Entertaining nonetheless.

I still can't get over the bride talking about her BMs' "budge it."

Grabows14

We should have quoted more often. I feel like the convo was so crazy.

Dreamergirl8812

Grabows14 said:

We should have quoted more often. I feel like the convo was so crazy.

It seriously would have been a classic if people had quoted or those involved hadn't been banned. Sigh.

mimiphin

Damn it! Why was I so late to the party! I know I am missing 90% of the info and Damn I wish I could find out all of it!