I have an usher who is somewhat upset about not being asked to be a groomsman. He feels that he should have been in the line-up opposed to the person who "beat him out" as he calls it. Pesonally, I wish he was a groomsman also, but in the end, it was my fiance's final choice.
I want to make this usher feel important and valued during the wedding. I really value his friendship, and sometimes find he is more of a friend than some of my bridesmaids at times. What can I have him do to have a purpose and feel important?