One of my bridesmaids has not been very cooperative in anything. We all tried to get together for dress shopping, and she worked different shifts (weekends only) so I made the appointment with plenty of time to make it to work. She still refused to come, making up excuses. I let it go it wasn't a big deal, even though she was mad she didnt get to try on dresses, I offered to go with her and another girl who became ill that day, and she never responded to the idea. When I text her she doesnt answer. I call her, her phone is dead, and voicemail box full. She no longer is working, so why can't she get ahold of me now, she should have time to at least charge her phone right? Any time im around her, her phone is on, texting her fiance (they got engaged in December, I asked her to be my bridesmaid in september) Her phone still dies, but she has her charger. Again, why cant she respond to me then? The girls are trying to order their dresses, and she wont give them the answer, or money on when she wants to do it or if she has the money. Were on the wire here, wedding is at the end of April, they need to be ordered ASAP.
I text K 2 days in a row, never heard back. The next day she sends me a facebook message saying she's been trying to get ahold of me for 4 days to hang out, I did change my number, but I gave it to her already, she didnt save it. I messaged her immediately with my number, and immediately text with my name and told her I have been trying to get ahold of her too. 3 days later no response!
She was on facebook earlier and I told her to text me that we need to talk. Nothing. I text her, 2 hours later, Nothing. I call her, phone is dead, voicemail full.
What am I supposed to do? I've had 2 bridesmaids drop out already one due to financial reasons, which are trying to be resolved, and the other because of family drama between hers, and mine. Obviously if she doesn't order her dress, she is out. But how am I to deal with this? Especially if she wont return my texts, and doesnt even know I have called? In my head I want to yell at her and tell her that if she cant even talk to me, she can get out! But that's not going to solve any problems, and I wont do that. But should I do?