Ok, I need help. I got engaged almost two months ago and have yet to officially ask one of my bridesmaids to be my MOH. It's between my sister and my cousin. I am best friends with my cousin and we do a lot of things together. She's the person I feel most comfortable around (besides my fiance of course) and I can tell her anything wihtout her being judgey.
My sister is younger than I am and has already started telling people she's probably going to be the MOH, even though I've not even mentioned it to her (which could be the problem). I've never been really close to her and don't really see her that often. Since I got engaged though she has already said she's hosting a bridal shower and told my mother she was really upset when she heard I went to look at dresses with my cousin (didnt even try any on, just took a research trip to some local shops). On top of that she already has said she doesn't want to give a speech at the reception and will not be hosting my bachelorette party.
I want my MOH to be my cousin, who I always have a fantastic time with, but I have a feeling my sister would read me the Riot Act if I even suggested it wasn't her. I don't want to hurt her feelings but I am more comfortable with my cousin. It's getting to the point where I don't want a MOH at all. What do I do?