Hello All,
I have a group of 4 friends who I keep in contact with from high school. I want two of them to be in my wedding party. The other two, who I rarely see other than bi-monthly get togethers, who I never talk to on the phone, and who I don't particularly like and am not close to, seem to think they should also be in my bridal party. I'm the first in our group to get married and they are super excited about everything.
Up until this point I'm mostly ignoring them - I didn't let them know I was going dress shopping and I don't tell them many details when we get together. I already have a sister and my roommate from university who will be co-MOH. I don't want to invite these girls to stand up with me - I don't like them very much. I mostly put up with them because they are close with my other two friends. At Christmas I have to start shopping for BM dresses since one of the girls is only in town for 3 weeks and is then going back to school on the West Coast.
Should I tell them is in my bridal party or should I let them figure it out for themselves?