they've been dating 6 months and he says he's proposing in 2 mos. i wouldn't dream of asking her bc i don't know her well and it seems a bit forced to me (he doesn't know her well either IMO but that's another oprah!).
however, i was looking at my FSIL's wedding album yesterday, and one of her bridesmaids was his girlfriend at THAT time! of course they had a nasty breakup and my FSIL now regrets seeing her in the WP pictures, but at the time he apparently wanted to marry THAT girlfriend, so my FSIL included her. ay ay ay.
my gut feeling is this chick's expecting to be included and i certainly don't want any tension with a FSIL. and it's not that i dislike her, i just don't KNOW her, so i really don't want to hurt her feelings. our family's really close so EVERYONE else would be in the WP - my FBIL, FSIL and her husband/kids, and my brother.
our wedding's still a year away but we've been engaged 6 months already and i'm dying to ask my girlfriends to be bridesmaids! what would you guys do? can i just wait until later and ask her to be a reader or something?