To make a long story short, my dad and I aren't getting along. His has been in and out of my life for the past 12 years and I got fed up w/his lying and drama and I told him that. He went and lying to grandma and his sisters about what I said. Now since I am getting married next October, my grandma told be she and some of my aunts would not be attending if my dad wasn't invited. Isn't that day supposed to be about my FI and I, not my dad getting his way? My grandma as wants my dad to be the one to walk me down the aisle and sit in the front w/ my mom. I told her an uncle that has been there for my family and I since my dad has left is walking me down the aisle and he would not be sitting up in the front. Am I in the wrong here or should I give in to my grandma? I want my family there, but I feel like if I give into this what else would I have to give into? This is suppose to be a happy time in my life right now but some of my dad's family is turning it into a nightmare.