So I have this bridesmaid who last week pretty much bit my head off because the dress I picked for them was too expensive ($165 inc. tax).
Here's what I got (in a nut shell): I think this is really too expensive. You don't know what it's like being out on your own with bills to pay and rent to pay. If I don't pay those things I'm out on the street. Even $20 or $30 would help, $20 is a weeks worth of groceries for me. I think you should look around for another cheaper dress.
Out of 7 girls, she was the only one to complain about the cost. This week she's talking about going shopping and literally saying she just needs to go to the mall even though she doesn't need anything. I'm not one to open my mouth, but this really pissed me off. I offered to pay for half the deposit, and extend the fitting deadline for her so she can still be a part of this. She said she doesn't want to back out and thinks I should find a cheaper dress. She doesn't even have to pay for alterations because her mom is doing them.
I don't want to pick a fight, but I told all my girls if they weren't able to do it to just tell me. This was before I even picked the dress. I totally understand if anyone wasn't able to do it, but I felt totally awful after getting this third degree from my friend. I'm not sure what to do. Do I say something to her about this or let it go? Then what do I do when time comes for ordering and she goes off on me again? Is this dress really that expensive?