So my fiance and I would like to host a dinner or something for our wedding party, kind of as a thank you for supporting us and also as a meet-and-greet type thing, as well. Most of them are acquantainces, but we'd like to promote a 'one big family' feel with everyone. Problem is : We don't have the kind of money to spend $400-$500 on a dinner with drinks... and we'd like the kids to be involved, too, so having drinks at a bar is out.
I'm wondering how rude it would be to invite everyone to a dinner (at this awesome buffet) where they'd pay for themselves... but then invite them to an afterparty at the Legion (we all love it there, neighborhood bar) where we'd pick up all the drinks? So familes would all be together at dinner, kids running around like crazy, then we drop them off at Grandma's and hit the bar where everyone would drink for free (up to around $250 - at the legion, a beer is like $2, mixed drink $3 so they're really cheap!)
What do y'all think?! Please help!