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Bridal Party Question

So here's the thing, my sister and I are not close, at all. We hardly ever speak to each other (let alone text each other). A month can easily go by and neither one of us had said one word to each other. She even told me she was pregnant, in a text message. Do I have to include her in my wedding party? I will obviously give her some sort of participation in my wedding, but I don't want her to be apart of my bridal party. I feel like the bridal party should be those that you are closest too, regardless of family or not. My fiance will probably have 2 (for sure) to maybe 4 groomsmen. I have by 2 best friends that I will for sure have in my bridal party, and then a few other possibilities (one even being my fiance's sister, who I'm much closer to than my own sister). If I don't include her, whats the easist way of handling the situation?

Re: Bridal Party Question

  • No, you don't have to include your sister.  Sharing parents does not require one to include a sibling in their wedding party if the sibling is not one of the people one is closest to.
  • Take it from someone who just went through this in the past few months, don't include her, and don't feel bad about it.  I fought with myself over this same question, picked my sister, and she was amazingly rude and told me weeks after accpeting that she didn't want to be in my bridal party. Now I feel awkward around her when we do see each other, and I really don't want to be in her company at all.  
  • You are right in choosing the people that are close and that will bring nothing but postivity to you through this whole entire process. Just because you are sisters dosent mean the realationship is there.
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