Whew! Go on over to the prewedding parties board and read the gem about the MOH who refuses to throw a destination b-party. OP needs a "come to Jesus" talking to.
"Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146