Ok. My wedding is six months away. I have 2 bridesmaids, my MOH, who has been my best friend since I can remember, and one bridesmaid, my cousin that I'm close to. Cousin, J, is super excited about everything, has helped me find my DJ and Photog (from 4 states away!) tried on like 15 bridesmaid dresses for me @ Davids Bridal (without my asking - she kept grabbing more to try). Basically everything a bride could want in a bridesmaid.
And then there's my MOH. I'm in Miami, she's in New Jersey, so I understand that there's not a whole lot that she can do. But she has fought me on everything, from the dress colors, to the music I chose, to the day-of plans and when I'm asking her to be there. The wedding is on Saturday; I asked her if she would be able to fly in on Thursday, to help me put together my flower arrangements and do some girly stuff like go get our nails done and stuff likt that. I didn't think that was unreasonable, especially since she's a teacher and this is during the summer, so she won't be working.
So this morning, J texted me to let me know that her dress had come in, and she was going to go pick it up and send me pics. (And told me that DB had thrown in a free pair of shoes - how awesome is that?) So i texted MOH, to see if she had made an appt with DB yet. Her response was, "You picked a dress?" Last month, I had been with J, which was when we tried on all those dresses, picked 3 that were similiar style/same fabric, sent pics and texts to MOH to let her know. I specifically picked more than one, so she'd have some options, as their two body types are very different. The whole time, MOH was texting me back, commenting on the pics. And now, only a month later, she completely forgot everything we talked about. She's the one I hoped to be most excited about this for me, but I feel like she doesn't care, and it really hurts.
I want her to be more involved, not because 'it's her duty as MOH' or anything like that, but because I love her like a sister and WANT her as part of this. She introduced me and FI 8 years ago when we were in high school! I don't know what to do.