I need help... I am getting married in April and have 4 Bridesmaids. One of them is going through a lot of family things currently.
I had lunch with her months ago and i told her that i loved her and wanted her to be a part of the wedding but that i didnt want to stress her anymore then she already was. She said that my wedding was the one thing she was looking forward to and that she wouldnt miss it. I also explained to her that all i expect her to do is to be there for rehearsal and the day of the wedding... Everything else is optional.
So now two months later... She text me about two weeks and while we were chit chatting she says.... I was thinking about the conversation we had and i dont feel that i can be a good bridesmaid to you right now.
I text her back and said to call me and she hasnt. I have since left her two vm and havent heard back at all.
this was two weeks ago. what do i do. Im getting really frustrated and the thing that really makes me mad is that she had to say something like that in a text message and then dissapear.
and im like "no big deal... ITS JUST MY WEDDING."
WHAT DO I DO?