I recently had a party and had some of the girls who I want to be wedding party. One of the girls (Jill) I asked looked blankly at me when I asked her. Then as she was leaving the party told me she would get back to me later. My fiance was standing like right there when she said that and he was like screw her. That is too rude. Well I was recently talking to a mutual friend of both of ours and she informed me that my friend(Jill) had informed her that she wasnt going to be part of the wedding. My friend asked had she told me yet and she said no. Its been like 3 weeks since I asked her. I kinda want to approach her and say something and personally don't want her part of wedding if she did say yes.
My fiance thinks I should just let her tell me herself. She has been a close friend over the years but lately we have had more downs than ups. I just am unsure on what to do. Also I don't think there should be drama so early on. Ladies any advice would be great.