Bridesmaids

Shel2324

I'm looking for creative ways to ask my bridesmainds to stand by my side... I've found some I like but nothing seems good enough?  I don't want to just take them out and ask them, I want to give them something that they can keep... HELP please!

SCogs18

I just called my bridesmaids (they all live far away) and asked them.  I origionally asked my MOH to be a bridesmaid over the phone.  When I got to see her in person two months later I asked her to actually be my Maid of Honor, I wanted to do that in person.  I think she really apprecaited that

katehar01

I don't really have any good advice here, because I just don't think it's necessary.  I asked my maids in person if possible, over the phone if they were out of town.  If you'd like to send a heartfelt note or give them a card, I think that'd be nice, but not mandatory.  I'm in 2 of my bridesmaids' weddings this year also, and they both just asked me.

Honestly, if one of my friends had given me some kind of "will you be my BM" keepsake, I would have ooohed and aaaahed over it, then stuck it immediately in a drawer when I got home and never looked at it again.  Not because I don't love them.  I'm just not into pointless clutter.