2 MOH'S how to split day-of duties?!

April Hewson

Hello - I have 2 MOH'S  but I only want 1 of them to sign. How would you suggest I break up their day of and alter duties so tehy both feel included? Both are saying a speech at the reception but i'm stumped for the ceremony.

Thanks!

vicki0508

The other one could hold your bouquet

direy25

What duties are you referring to?

McKenna2012

I think they are both included simply by walking down the aisle and standing with you for your ceremony.  I doubt either will feel slighted if they aren't given jobs to do.

ALH11

I also have 2 MOH's.  They are both saying speeches also.  One is my cousin and the other in my best friend.  They both have worked together through everything.  Helping with the bridal shower, invites, and planning the bachelorette party.  The only issue I have found is that my cosuin wants to walk in before me instead of my best friend.  My bf doesn't care so it workd out.  I would ask who wants to do what or let them pick out of a hat. lol

April Hewson

how do i choose who signs our papers with us?

trix1223

It doesn't have to be a MOH.  It can be any legal adult who witnesses the ceremony.  If you feel that you must have each do something, have one sign the license, and the other stand closest to you and hold your flowers during the ceremony.

good luck.