My younger sister who is 19 is my maid of honor and I have 6 other bridesmaids 2 are on my fiancee and one of them is the type of person who is very out going and says whatever she wants. i pick her to be in the party cause my fiancee and her are close and she has made me feel like family the most. well my MOH is planing the shower with all the girls and the gift is pricey so my MOH asked the groomsmen to go in on the gift too. well the gift is a gift and me and my fiancee should not knopw anything or have anything to do with it but his family is coming to him tell him they dont want to do it but telling my sister ok.
well last night we got a text from one of the groomsmen wife (who is not even in the wedding) saying my sister is annoying and is leaving a bad taste in his family. Then I go on facebook and I see the BM had posted something about my sister without saying my sisters name but you know its about her and come to find out that my mother in law is going to pay for all of the side half of the gift. and thats not fair to her.
I dont want to say anything to the party but my feelings are hurt with how the two girls are acting and im not sure what to do.
adivce please!