I plan on hosting a bridesmaid luncheon, I want to get the invitations out, I have 2 weekend dates in mind, but my one best friend lives in California and won't be able to make the shower, so she said she will most likely be able to come back for the luncheon. I'm waiting to hear back about which weekend she can get a better flight deal. she has to apply for a CC to put the flight on, so I have to wait 10 days for that. I want to get the date set with my f'iance's sisters bc they have a big family and there is other baby showers etc that could be the same weekend. Should I just pick a date and mail out the invitations, instead of waiting??