So I just want to say first off that I am a firm believer in no bridesmaid drama and Ihope that I'm not coming as a bridezilla. I had my tasting of wine/champagne/food on Sunday and I thought it would be a fun way for me and my bp to bond and get excited...but totally didnt expect everybody to be able to go, but was very excited when they all said yes and that they couldn't wait. I checked in with them several times and they all said yes. Well the night before one texted me that she didn't have anything to wear and i told her she could borrow anything she wanted but said no she wont come. other friend didnt answer any of my calls during the event and then texts afterwards sorry she couldn't come. I dont mind that they missed it or that i paid for their spots but i am worried that they are unreliable. I dont want to be bridezilla...but should i say anything? Please tell me if I am just being a worry wart..maybe my feelings are just hurt and I'm being paranoid.
Any input is very much appreciated