So I'm getting married in August, and I have 5 bridesmaids. 2 are my sisters (1 is my MOH), 1 is my best friend from highschool, 1 is a current close friend and coworker, and 1 is my friend from college. I am having issues wit the highschool and the college friends...
Let's start with Highschool. Highschool is off at College right now in Minnesota, and so all purchases have been long distance. I bought her dress while she was at school, ut I showed he pics of it and she loves it. While off at school she bought her accessories... She bought a black beret, chunky jeweled bracelet and necklace, and pink and black pumps... With a medium blue strapless chiffon dress. for an August wedding. Now, I dont have an issue with the jewelry, and I can deal with the hat, but pink and black pumps with a blue summer dress? I keep thinking it will look horrendous and I don't know how to approach her. I am thinking about having all of the BP get together and try on their dresses and accesories and maybe she'll notice they stand out?
Now for college. College wants to be overly involved (like MOH) in everything and gets upset when I don't include her in every minute detail... the issue I am having right now is that college wants me and all of my bridesmaids to get ready the day of at her moms house because its closer to the venue than anyone elses house...
and while yes, technically it is closer, if I am not getting ready at my venue I want to be at my mom's house with her and my brothers and sisters. I want to just outright tell her this, but I am afraid of her taking it way too personally and getting upset.
My other bridesmaids (as of yet) are being awesome. I know I still have 8 months, to go, but I want to take care of the issues sooner than later... PLEASE HELP!!!