First of all, I would like to say that I have ALWAYS dreaded picking bridesmaids for my wedding day because I would end up with 15 on each side if all my closest friends stood up. I also wanted to have one rep from my fiance's family on my side and really wanted his cousin that is close to my age to stand up. Well, I sort of blurted it out to her the day I was engaged simply because I was floating on a cloud and things just came out. She said she was honored and started crying that I would think of her....
SINCE THEN...she has gone psycho on me! She had a rough patch with her dating life and is crying and cursing that she never gets a break. I accidentally looked at my engagement ring in front of her and I felt daggers going in to my skull. She has a lot of growing up to do and seems that she can't be happy for me and her cousin if she is not happy and on her way down the aisle (keep in mind she is 3 years younger than me!). I really haven't officially asked anyone with these individual photo collages I made? What are your thoughts? Will I be dealing with Debbie Downer for 12 months? Is there a way out?? HELP! I also don't want to ruin relationships on his side of the family.
-Cheers