I am trying to decide on my bridal party, and I find myself unable to choose between two women for the MoH position. Is it okay to have two Maids of Honor, with one being the life-long friend who is probably too busy to help but would love the honor of being my MoH, and the other being the new, great friend who will probably last the remainder of my adulthood and is very capable of planning and involvement? Or would having two create too much conflict?