Is there any sort of rule of thumb for MoBs and MoGs to go by when it comes to finding something to wear for the wedding? Some sort of etiquette that I don't know about? Anyone see that "whose wedding is it anyway" for a NYE wedding when the mother of the groom (she was Asian, I think) wanted to wear a bright red dress to their black and white wedding and she stood out like a sore thumb but didn't think there was anything wrong with it? I'm sort of hoping this doesn't happen... but I don't know if I should try to say anything if she doesn't ask me about it first. She wore bright red to his bro's wedding a while back and their colors were champagne and black. Should the mothers try to coordinate at all? My mom is more simple and doesn't want to stand out too much because she feels like it shouldn't be about her, but I'm a little afraid that it'll make things a little uncomfortable if FMIL goes all out. Sorry for the novel! TIA for any advice!