I'm at my wit's ends with my family. My relatives are pushing me to have a traditional Khmer(/Chinese/Viet) 3-day wedding. I understand that I'm the last of the older girls (the next female after me is 11) to get married, but I just don't see a 3-day event possible.I want to have everything in one day- my house (7a-11a), church ceremony (12p-2p), then the reception (3:30p-9p). It's already a FULL day, but my family is really upset with my decision and feel I'm not including enough.So ladies... my question is- how did/will you incorporate your different cultures into your wedding? Like, I'm already having a tea ceremony... and I'm already having monks "bless" our marriage. What I feel is the "important" cultural part of a wedding is already included, but I'm not sure what else I can do to appease my relatives.BTW, FI is not Asian and he really doesn't "care" as long as we still get married in a church. :-\