Hey Gals, I'm thinking of doing my tea ceremony in the morning, pics before ceremony and reception. My ceremony and reception will be at the same place. I'd like to do pics in the middle beacause we will have time. (tea starting round 11ish, ceremony is at 430)question- how can i do this w/o having my FI see me in my white dress? i bought a qi pao but my mom doesnt want me to wear it, she thinks its too old skool. i dont necessarily agree with her because my FI's family would like to see me in it. She just wants me to have an evening dress to change into mid reception.Should I:1. wear a qi pao during tea ceremony and pics and then change before 2nd ceremony? BUT i wont have pics in my white dress2. wear my white dress all day. FI will see me in white dress all day3. Wear qi pao during tea, change into white dress before ceremony and then evening dress mid-reception.-is this too much?What do you girls think????