I'm not chinese but my FI is. I had done some research on chinese traditions in weddings and found the tea ceremony, but when I mentioned it to my FMIL she said it was not a very big deal. She didn't seem like their family did that in other weddings?! Now that we are further into the planning I am getting the feeling that the FI and family would like to include some chinese culture into the wedding. I would LOVE that, I'm just not sure what to do? FI and I have talked about a double happiness cake topper...but that's all I have as far as ideas go right now. Any help??