This past weekend my fmil asked me what color my girls were wearing because she wants to match them. In my mind, she should wear a color that is not the same as the girls and wear a complimentary color. My mom already bought her dress and is wearing a color that compliments the girl's dresses. My FI's grandmother also wants to wear the same color. I want them to have the freedom to wear whatever color they want! Maybe it doesn't matter because my BMs and my FMIL won't be in pics together.... Thoughts?