my fiance and I have decided to find a rabbi and a pastor co-officiate at our wedding as we both feel that religion is an important part of our life. I've spent a lot of time and research to find a Rabbi who is willing to perform the ceremony with a pastor and willing to come to where we live (about a 4 hour drive from another state). My fiance has yet to try and find a pastor. I'm getting a little annoyed (we're still a year and a half out, but I do think the ceremony is pretty much the most important part of the day (obviously). I have 3 cousins who are Rabbis, so we could certainly have had one of them perform the ceremony (for free!), so I feel like I've done a lot of work and he has yet to put any effort towards having his religion represented. Other than that frustration, does anyone who is Jewish (and practicing) have experience meeting with a pastor to co-officiate? what was the experience like?
Thanks