We're having our final meeting with the rabbi this afternoon, so I'll be able to get his opinion then too. But first I thought I'd see if you have any suggestions.
We're doing a cocktail hour with passed appetizers. The toasts will happen when the guests gather to tables, before the buffet line opens up. Logistically, it makes sense to me to have either my dad or sister (MOH) do kiddush and Motzi along with the toasts. But is this weird, since guests will have already started eating? Other suggestions?
TIA!