I'll admit, I'm a bibliophile. So when we decided to get married, I got my hands on every Jewish wedding book I could find. But, I just found one that is definitely one of my favorites: "Beyond Breaking the Glass- A Spiritual Guide to Your Jewish Wedding."
It's by a liberal lesbian rabbi, so there's a progressive tilt, but it's more inclusive to liberal communities than it is exclusive to more conservative ones- there's plenty in it for everyone.
I came across it randomly in the library, and while it's out of stock on Amazon, you may be able to find it elsewhere. I highly recommend it. It should be on your shelf right next to "The New Jewish Wedding."
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