My FI was raised Conservadox in the deep South. Although his local Jewish community was small, it was dedicated and he grew up very active in Hebrew school and his congregation. After leaving for college, his attendance at services became a little more sporadic and few of his friends were/are Jewish.
I'm not yet Jewish and am in the (frustrating and rewarding) process of conversion with a wonderful Conservative shul and two rabbis. We're planning a Jewish wedding and, while I've had to let go of a few expectations (read: not being seen by the groom 'til I walk down the aisle), I'm finding the Jewish wedding traditions very meaningful.
Ah, but there is always a catch!
Somehow, at 28 and 31, neither of us has been to a Jewish wedding! I've been to an interfaith ceremony, but it was 15yrs ago and there was also a priest. :-) We don't know very many 'marrying age' Jews with weddings to crash between now and April. Additionally, most of our guests will be non-Jews... so heaven help us for the hora! Yet a Jewish celebration and ritual is very, very important to both of us.
On the other hand, I've had trouble getting FI to recognize some of the traditions are actively followed by Conservatives. (Example: he thought it would work to get married in May!)
Bottom line: can you share any resources we can work with as we develop our understanding of a modern Conservative Jewish ceremony? I'm halfway through 'The Modern Jewish Wedding,' but it feels much more geared toward the Reform tradition. I'd just like to have a few things to point my FI toward as he attends his first Jewish wedding -- which just happens to be HIS wedding! :-)
Thank you in advance.