Hello,
I converted to Judaism and I am hoping to get engaged soon. While I am excited by that prospect, I am feeling a little anxious about wedding planning, costs, and heightened drama due to having non-Jewish relatives.
Based on weddings I've been to, seen pictures of, and heard about, it seems like the expectation for most Jewish weddings is to invite over 100 people. I'm not sure that this is something I would want, plus I am concerned about cost especially considering that my parents may be less willing to help pay for things that they don't understand or see as necessary (like the extra expense of kosher catering, kippot, benchers).
Any tips from anyone who managed to keep it small, kosher, and sane?
Thanks!!