Hi, I'm just wondering what is considered "good etiquette" in regards to out of town guests. Most of my family and friends as well as my fiancee's family and friends live outside of Texas (Arizona, California, Utah, and Florida). My parents are the only people that live here in SATX. My stepmom told my FH that if we invite people from out of town we have to pay all their expenses. So he freaked, of course! I told him that most of the time, the guest pays their own expenses and the wedding party organizes a block of discounted hotel rooms for them to use. (I'm very familiar with that as I work at a hotel
) What do y'all think?