Wedding party RSVPs

kathleenkmm

Did the members of your wedding party RSVP? My FILs (parents and 4/5 siblings) have not sent theirs yet and it is really stressing me out even though our RSVP date is next week.

Ash61612

nope, they haven't sent theirs in yet. I think most think it is assumed the bride and groom know they are coming to the wedding.

kimiandgary

Ours have been sending them in. Why do you have such an early response date?

daria24

I haven't gotten the best man's yet. My sister miraculously mailed her's. I need the best man and his FI's menu selections so they better send it!

KDough

Some have and some havent, but i dont care if they end up sending it in or not, i know theyre all coming

Elizabeth80

Yes, FIL's were sent in within the first couple of days. And my mom's rsvp a couple of days after that. We have received  4 rsvp's from our WP which is a little less then half. Our rsvp date isn't up yet so I'm not worried about it.

KrisKenny

Some of them sent their responses in, some didn't. Our reply by date isn't until May 22nd, so they have plenty of time.

Zimsgirl

Just 2 of my 3 sisters and my brother then one GM. We're waiting on 3 more. We need them back for meal choice. I just wanna be like send in your damn RSVP

peachykeen26

My MOH did but I don't really care about the others and I am assuming they are bringing dates unless I hear otherwise.

brittneyh4

I had the VIPs and WP marked as a yes before I even sent the invites out. If you need it for meal purposes, give 'em a call. They probably figure that since they are a part of it they don't need to send it back - you know they'll be there.

littleluckypenny

We've gotten two RSVPs back from WP members. 2 of FI's 3 GM.  His BM (brother) hasn't sent it back yet.  I have yet to receive any RSVPs from any member of my family, WP or not.

melfacto

I haven't but I am assuming I won't be receiving them, as many have asked if they can just keep the invitation! We don't have meal choices on them so I am not concerned, they all have dresses / tuxes so of course they will there! lol

kathleenkmm

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_wedding-party-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:29ea6ce8-9106-40e1-bf40-33b819f2d739Post:7be64133-95bc-4e05-aaf7-4095c025dbf7">Re: Wedding party RSVPs</a>:
[QUOTE]Ours have been sending them in. Why do you have such an early response date?
Posted by kimiandgary[/QUOTE]

<div>We're getting married the first weekend in June and we both have really busy Mays at work, so I wanted to make sure we had time to contact everyone who did not RSVP.</div>

Kfudge0714

all but 1 have RSVP'ed but my response date isn't until May 15th so there is time. Although, obviously they are coming so just send the friggin thing back! ugh!

melntaitt

Only one BM; the best man said his never arrived in the mail which happens way too often around here, the MOH isn't sure of a number yet because her husband is supposed to be in Albany that week, and the flower girl's family is also waiting to firm up numbers.
 
I didn't realize how close our RSVP date is either - less than three weeks away...

MissyB1313

Most of them won't...I know most of our friends won't either. But they all "verbally" RSVPed... so Ill wait until the week after the RSVP is due, then just double check to make sure. Our reply date is May 5 and I'm still waiting on 90. URGHH.

HarperBargo

I'm only missing one BM and the family of the RB and FG (their dad is an usher). But the rest as sent them in. I think they just assume you know that they are coming. But I still like getting mail.

AbeandCarrie

I am still waiting on RSVP's an FI's entire family.  There are some that have verbally told me they are coming so i'm not sure if they think that is good enough.  We still have three weeks until they are do so I will wait a while to start panicking

Jessica632011

Some have and some haven't. I know they are coming but I wish they would just send them back to I can get my escort cards done!

jaime10285

Some have and some haven't.  FILs haven't yet and FMIL is going on a cruise for a week in May.  Somehow I worry they will forget even if we do remind them...

WEEZIE918

I haven't even sent my invitations out!  LOL

[Deleted User]

It doesn't matter if my parents or his or his/my siblings rsvp - I know they are coming   We don't have to select our meal choice either, it is table side ordering, so that is another reason it does not matter.  I am not expecting it although my maitron of honor sent hers back  
Unless there is a meal choice needed, don't stress over it.  Good luck.