June 2012 Weddings

why BM dropped out

Hello Ladies sorry it took me so long to respond. My 4 BM dropped out with some lame excuses. One is at another state and she doesn't think she can be here for any events other than the wedding which was fine with me but she said she would rather go as a guest. 2nd BM got married last year and she said that she has other priorities right now and she would also like to attend just as a guest, and the funny thing is that she told me she just bought tickets to go on a cruise, and to go to South America. 3rd and 4th BM are my cusins from Vegas which mom is mad at my mom for something dumb and they were not sure if they were going to make the wedding so they rather not be in the wedding party. Im not really sad, im just mad that they waited until last minute to tell me, because they knew they had to get dresses by then end of this week. I know money was not an issue for any of this girls and it just shows me that maybe we were not as close as I though. Like I said im not sad or anything and I understand that they didn't want to be part of it anymore so now i just need to figure out how to deal with the odd number of people in the WP. I still have 6 of my girls left so im not worry :) im glad now I can save some money on gifts and flowers lol
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Re: why BM dropped out

  • I am really sorry about that.  It sounds like you are handling it pretty well (better than I would have).  It will probably make things much simpler in the long run to now have them and help keep the drama out of the wedding.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_bm-dropped-out-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:38869d3d-75b2-478a-924e-4be49cc22e57Post:2f3c8dab-d226-4c30-8788-12b4c5a06fcd">Re: why BM dropped out</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am really sorry about that.  It sounds like you are handling it pretty well (better than I would have).  It will probably make things much simpler in the long run to now have them and help keep the drama out of the wedding.
    Posted by Sarah0335[/QUOTE]

    This exactly.  *hugs*
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  • I also agree with what PPs said. As for the uneven sides.. no big deal!! Your photographer will know how to make the photos "balance."
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  • I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this! ::hugs::
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  • I'm sorry!  Don't worry about the uneven sides.  My FI is having 6 and I am only having 4.  I am just having my BM's walk down the aisle by themselves and have all the guys standing up with my FI.  I think this will work fine.  I've seen lots of pictures with uneven sides and it's not a big deal. 
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_bm-dropped-out-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:38869d3d-75b2-478a-924e-4be49cc22e57Post:2f3c8dab-d226-4c30-8788-12b4c5a06fcd">Re: why BM dropped out</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am really sorry about that.  It sounds like you are handling it pretty well (better than I would have).  It will probably make things much simpler in the long run to now have them and help keep the drama out of the wedding.
    Posted by Sarah0335[/QUOTE]
    agree 100%. hugs, keep up the good attitude
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  • That sucks! Sorry. I'm glad you're not upset about it. Don't worry about the uneven sides. Mine are waaayyy uneven (5 GM+a dog -to- 2 BM--but I'll also have the 2 FGs and my dog on my side).
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_bm-dropped-out-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:38869d3d-75b2-478a-924e-4be49cc22e57Post:2f3c8dab-d226-4c30-8788-12b4c5a06fcd">Re: why BM dropped out</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am really sorry about that.  It sounds like you are handling it pretty well (better than I would have).  It will probably make things much simpler in the long run to now have them and help keep the drama out of the wedding.
    Posted by Sarah0335[/QUOTE]

    This.  I'm sorry. 
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