Hi all! Okay, a bit about me and then on to the question. My FI and I have been engaged for almost 2 weeks. We already have a date, June 6, 2012 and a venue, the golf club that my parents belong too, and a DJ, a friend of mine that DJ’s professionally and is giving us a great deal. We have been together for 5 ½ years so I’ve had lots of time to think on stuff. JI have 2 sisters and 1 brother, 1 BIL with 2 twin nieces and my brother has had the same girlfriend for several years. My FI also has 1 sister. One of my sisters is the MOH the other is a BM and the FSIL is the third. My two nieces are the FG’s and my FI has 3 friends as GMs and we were thinking of adding a 4th GM, my brother.My mom has said that if we keep it uneven, 3 girls and 4 boys that would make the girlfriend feel left out. The problem is no one in the family likes her! I don’t want her to stand up with me but I also don’t want problems with my Bro and his girl (she’s kind of a drama QUEEN!)Now to the question, do I (1) ask her to be the 4th BM, (2) have my brother do something else in the wedding, or (3) just have 3 and 4 and be uneven? Please help! Thanks!!
