Co-worker invites

Sharingourlove

My office, staff of 9, have all heard about the wedding and even met my FI.  I had planned to invite them all, and do have room to accomdate them, but some things have happened here that has me not wanting to invite all.  (I have started looking for a new job w/main emphasis on job hunt will wait until after the wedding.)  

There are a couple I am outside friends with, just don't want to invite the bosses and a few others.  I'm about to send out my SaveTheDates but not sure whether to include them at this point. 

In a quandry but thankfully know I don't have to send them notices when the rest go.  Just unsure how to invite part but not all....

Thoughts?  Thanks!

mgoss228

I wouldn't send STDs  (Save the Dates) to your coworkers.  You don't have to send STDs to EVERYONE, and can totally get away with sending only an invite to some guests.  Once you send a STD, it's pretty much an invite, and you can't take those back.  Imo, it's better safe than sorry.  HTH!

meganhardan

Mgoss, I'm glad you said that, because that's what we're doing.  We aren't sending STD's to any coworkers.  FI and I work in the same office, and we want to wait until closer to the wedding to figure out who from work will be invited (we've had a bunch of layoffs too, so we're not sure who will be left, including us--yikes!) 

Sharing our love--we have about 30 people in our office and we don't have space to invite them all.  We're inviting our two owners and then our office friends, I know a lot of people won't agree with me on that, but it's what works for us.

Hope that helps!

Sharingourlove

Thanks ladies, that does help!  Have decided not to send the STD's except to one friend who I work with (but she's moving soon but is designing and making my dress for me so definitely will be coming).  As for the rest will just wait and see closer to the date.  Who know, maybe I'll have a new job by then (or win the lotto if I remember to buy a ticket!).

fancynewbecca

Good advice... I made a rule about my work to only invite certain people who fell within the rule. I made one exception to the rule. It felt weird not inviting my boss, though )