So last night I had my FI call his father as we were still waiting on his (and his wife's) response along with all of his step-kids RSVPs. I want to get the head count to the caterers today, so FI called his Dad and asked if they would be making it to the reception (along with his step-siblings). Here is the response he got (and where my anger/vent starts):
" I don't think any of us will make it to the reception because it is going to be a lot of your mom's family and not so much of mine. That family is in the past and that is where I would like to keep it" then he continued with "Amanda's (me) family is just too rich for us and we really don't think we would fit in or what we would bring." Now neither of us expect or care if they bring anything just show up!! But don't throw the fact that my family has money management skills (by no means are we rich) as an excuse as to why you are not going to attend your own son's wedding reception. What makes it worse is that he has attended all of his step-kids weddings and receptions, but will only attend his own son's wedding ceremony (and that still isn't a 100% definite). I know FI is pretty disappointed/bummed by all of this but neither of us know what to do about this and honestly would just prefer to say screw you too...and see if we come to anything you ask us to attend any more, but I know I should be the bigger person.
Again sorry for the long rant but I just needed to get that all off my chest!