So please bear with me, I'm too cheap to order more samples so I made do with what I have.
1) a black pocketfold and metallic amethyst cardstock around the invite, metallic black envelopes (RSVP and outer)

2) a metallic amethyst pocketfold with solid black cardstock around the invite, metallic black envelopes (RSVP and outer) (obvi you need to imagine it here)
3) the invite itself, as of right now we are not putting FIs parents names on here since they aren't contributing. if things change, they will be included

4) two of the inserts

5) the other three inserts

Right now I'm leaning towards option 2 for the color scheme (amethyst pocketfold) because I think its more "fun" where as option 1 (black pocket) is more "formal".
Thoughts? Opinions? Suggestions?