I was finally able to tell FI my concerns about us being able to afford the wedding. I've been stressed for a couple months now about being able to afford it since we have no savings and will be paying for it entirely out of our wages. It's FI's first wedding and I was worried that he would resent the fact that I had the big wedding before and he wouldn't if we decided to scale down, and that I would resent having to pay for a wedding that I didn't really want.
FI understands completley, and he told me it doesn't matter to him what kind of wedding we have as long as he gets to have me as his wife at the end of the day
We're going to cut out a lot of the expensive details, and as much as I am going to miss not having my florist/decorator, because she is amazing, I am so relieved that I don't have to stress about paying for it, because we were making our budget fit around her, instead of finding someone in our budget.
June 2012 Sig Challnege July: Ceremony Location
