So my oldest sister ( since I've gotten engaged) and her husband have been so jealous about everything regarding our engagement and wedding plans ( including showers and bach. party) . the latest jealousy spat is my bach. party ( a weekend in Austin- nothing huge just a weekend getaway and barhopping) . Last night my middle sister just told that my oldest sister called her up complaining about the bach. party bc they ( her husband and her - he is very controlling and jealous about everyone and anyone) researched the hotel which is hilton and said that the rooms are going to be $ 500 per person per night ( which is completely false bc i just stayed there last year and i would never choose to have such an expensive bach. party bc i wouldn't want everyone to fork out alot of money). I have already told everyone to get together with people to share rooms to split the costs and in my room's cost particularly ( which is the same room my sister will be in) will be split 5 ways bc we have 5 people staying in our hotel room. The only thing that she has to pay for is her own drinks, her part of the hotel room and dinner and whatever else she wants to buy. She told my middle sister that she is not coming for the whole weekend just sat. bc of some excuse ( which is fine) but i have a feeling that she won't end up coming bc her husband never lets her drive by herself and it is 2 hours away. she even tried to convince my middle sister to not go either ( which she is an easy pushover and i won't be surprised if she caves in to my older sister)
i don't know if i should confront her about her jealousy and lack of support for me and my fiance or should i just keep it in? I don't want to throw my middle sister under the bus for telling me stuff that my other sister told her but i won't to call my oldest sister out. what do i do? her and my bro. in laws jealousy has gotten the best of me my whole engagement and i can't take it. on my way to work this morning i just tried to keep telling myself that they are just jealous of the opportunities i have in my life but i can't shake this feeling i have toward them. i am really starting to resent them.
any advice on what i should do?