June 2012 Weddings

Rude questions

So my parents aren't helping to pay for anything and that's cool. I get they are in a tough situation financially, and we made plans accordingly.

However, everytime my mom and I talk about the wedding she asks how much everything is going to cost. If it is more than free, it is too much and I should do something else.

Since she isn't contributing in a financial way, I kinda want to say the price is consistent with what our budget can handle or something, but its my mom...

Its just putting such a strain on our relationship. I'm avoiding her bc I don't want to deal with her judging me for wanting my wedding to be nice.

Is anyone else going through this? Have any tips? Advice? Virtual hugs?
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