TMI QOTD - 3/20

MMRoberts11

Apparently last wednesday was "BJ and steak day" (who knew?).  Do you like giving blow jobs?  If not, do you still do it anyway?

chelseamb11

I don't mind giving them at all.  Well now I do cuz we're holding off anything until the wedding lol. But before, it always meant I got some fun too lol.

acaponi87

I don't mind so much now..when I was younger, not so much.

BJ />HJ

I'm sad I missed that. I did know it and made a mental note around Valentine's Day but I forgot. FI goes on his bachelor party trip/weekend on Thursday...maybe tonight would be a good day for a belated celebration haha.

MichelleAG05

CRAP!  This is the 3rd year in a row that I've forgotten about Steak & BJ Day. 

I used to hate it.  And then enjoyed doing it for FI.  And now I dislike it again. 

Zimsgirl

I actually kind of like doing it. I had never done it before and was like no way I'm not doing it, then I got curious and did it lol

ShelbyLynn0519

I hate giving them.

MMRoberts11

I don't mind it so much but it's definitely not the first thing I'll try. 

chelseakopperud

Dont love it... dont mind it....

KrisKenny

I hate giving it. I have TMJ and my jaw is messed up, so it hurts me when I do it. However, FI will get one every once in a while. It doesn't last for very long & he understands, but he LOVES it when I surprise him and say yes to doing it (he asks all the time).

Oh, and I never heard of Steak & BJ Wednesday before.

sleblanc72

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[QUOTE]I don't mind it so much but it's definitely not the first thing I'll try. 
Posted by MMRoberts11[/QUOTE]
My feelings exactly.

acaponi87

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[QUOTE]I hate giving it. I have TMJ and my jaw is messed up, so it hurts me when I do it. However, FI will get one every once in a while. It doesn't last for very long & he understands, but he LOVES it when I surprise him and say yes to doing it (he asks all the time). <strong>Oh, and I never heard of Steak & BJ Wednesday before.
</strong>Posted by KrisKenny[/QUOTE]

It's not a Wednesday thing but it's an annual event 1 month after Valentine's Day (3/14)..the idea being that the girl got her ideal day/night of romance on 2/14 so 3/15 should be what the guys "really" want.

I think it's funny and I like steak so it works for me lol.

goodine11

Not the first thing on my list but I do enjoy his reaction

peachykeen26

I love it. It seriously gives me such a rush of being in charge and controlling how he feels. It realy turns me on when he is so turned on. So, we both end up benefitting.

amonis

I like doing it for him.  He of course loves it and I like to make him happy. 

daria24

I freaking love it. The power, his reaction. And also Fi told me that basically before I came into his life, it was like he had never had one, the others paled in comparison. So it's nice to know you are good at something

kelsey+brandon

FI loves them and I don't mind them. The only annoying part is that FI just likes to enjoy them and I get tired. haha (This is TMI Tuesaday after all).

Zimsgirl

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[QUOTE]I love it. It seriously gives me such a rush of being in charge and controlling how he feels. It realy turns me on when he is so turned on. So, we both end up benefitting. ;)
Posted by peachykeen26[/QUOTE]


I feel the same way

I'll add I don't get spitting if he finishes. I mean the taste is already in your mouth....
Ok that's my tmi for the day haha

peachykeen26

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/20 : I feel the same way I'll add I don't get spitting if he finishes. I mean the taste is already in your mouth.... Ok that's my tmi for the day haha
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

very true.
I do every once in a while, if I just can't get myself to swallow it. But, otherwise I do every time.

peachykeen26

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[QUOTE]FI loves them and I don't mind them. The only annoying part is that FI just likes to enjoy them and I get tired. haha (This is TMI Tuesaday after all).
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

I hear ya. I have learned a method to not getting tired.

Zimsgirl

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/20 : very true. I do every once in a while, if I just can't get myself to swallow it. But, otherwise I do every time.
Posted by peachykeen26[/QUOTE]


Usually I give head as part of foreplay but for something extra special ill go Tim he finishes. I've done that a few times

Zimsgirl

Peachy keen have you seen the episode of sex and the city where Samantha talks about "funky spunk" hahaha

Ash61612

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[QUOTE]I love it. It seriously gives me such a rush of being in charge and controlling how he feels. It realy turns me on when he is so turned on. So, we both end up benefitting. ;)
Posted by peachykeen26[/QUOTE]
agree

diamondx423

Kelsey, I get tired and bored after a while. Ha!

I don't hate it, but I do try to avoid it if I can. I feel very in control during sex, so I guess I don't need to dominate that area as well? Idk...

Skittles612

I really don't like to do it.  FI always pushes for it so once in a while it happens. 

I saw the Sex & The City episode!  I understand that it is linked to diet and FI eats a lot of red meat, which supposedly makes the flavor bad.  So that doesn't help with my dislike of the job. lol!

peachykeen26

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[QUOTE]Peachy keen have you seen the episode of sex and the city where Samantha talks about "funky spunk" hahaha
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

Bah hahahhaha. YES!

peachykeen26

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[QUOTE]I really don't like to do it.  FI always pushes for it so once in a while it happens.  I saw the Sex & The City episode!  I understand that it is linked to diet and FI eats a lot of red meat, which supposedly makes the flavor bad.  So that doesn't help with my dislike of the job. lol!
Posted by Skittles612[/QUOTE]

This goes both ways though. Our diet affects our down there too. We don't really eat a lot of red meat, so that definitely helps. FI also drinks a TON of water which kills the funk of the spunk. lol

doeie04

I am with Kelsey. I don't mind it but sometimes it takes too long and my jaw can't go anymore. haha.

Oh and I spit. I can't swallow it. It tastes horrible, but he does eat a ton of meat and other stuff that makes it taste gross. Eew. He doesn't care if I spit.

He doesn't get BJs much. I have a higher sex drive than him, so I would rather have sex. And if I use it for foreplay, he finishes too soon, so it sucks. hahahaha

khafner2

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[QUOTE]FI loves them and I don't mind them. The only annoying part is that FI just likes to enjoy them and I get tired. haha (This is TMI Tuesaday after all).
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

This!

goodine11

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/20 : I feel the same way I'll add I don't get spitting if he finishes. I mean the taste is already in your mouth.... Ok that's my tmi for the day haha
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

TMI TUESDAY : NO SPITTING HERE

acaponi87

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/20 : TMI TUESDAY : NO SPITTING HERE
Posted by goodine11[/QUOTE]

I never understood why you would spit. I could have it down my throat much quicker than the time it would take me to get to a sink/garbage. I'd rather have it not just sitting around in my mouth. WOW this is getting way TMI lol.

chelseakopperud

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/20 : I never understood why you would spit. I could have it down my throat much quicker than the time it would take me to get to a sink/garbage. I'd rather have it not just sitting around in my mouth. WOW this is getting way TMI lol.
Posted by acaponi87[/QUOTE]

I totally agree!!